I’ve got a lot of thoughts about infidelity in particular — which is at the heart of Lemonade. In committed relationships you bleed, you sweat, you change. You contort, love, fuck, and devote to something sacred — if you want it to be sacred, that is.
A lot of relationships are actually just transactional, half-agreements. That’s as sad as it sounds.
In this video check-in: My feelings about infidelity, monogamy and commitment — and how they’ve evolved over time. How I define Divine Fidelity a la David Deida’s 3 stages of relationships. And my deep respect for Beyonce’s art and every woman’s choice of devotion.
Yes, success is gritty business. You’ve got to hustle your bustle. You’ve got to eat intensity Wheaties for breakfast. But there’s a difference between happy rigor and inane slogging. Slogging doesn’t work. It just doesn’t.
You can’t plant misery seeds today and expect to get a juicy crop next season.
…tothe dark, the spacious, the sweet, the jaded, the women who live as certain as light rays, who renovate broken boardrooms and policies with justified anger and overwhelming Love —Love of inclusion, of ecology, of bone solid Truth — Love of Love.
Feelings are facts. Trust is a milestone. And Compassion is a strategy.
Be strategic with your desires. Leverage your contradictions. Make ease a metric of your success. And prioritize what’s sacred. For navigating and encouragement, I give you…The Fire Starter Sessions Audio Course: A soulful + practical guide to creating success on your own terms.
Comparison is a slippery slope to envy and for the most part, envy wastes energy that could be put towards getting what you want or optimizing what you have. It’s a trap. I used to envy trust-fund babies and my friends with rich parents. “Poor me…no leg-up, born into an average family, gotta be self-made…” Yack. Whatta waste of mind space – space that could be filled with creativity and ingenuity.
With envy out of the way, you’ll have more space for your own greatness to step forward.
What’s became rote or banal for you that is really part of a great dream or vision OR a bad plot that you really don’t want to be participating in?
Look up. Zoom back from the tasks and see the holy weaving of your time and love and action.
Make it matter. Because it does.
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