JUNE 26, 2026

The biggest pain in my spiritual ass. Aka—greatest learning.

Summer Love…
 
Last week I promised I’d say more about the concept of WANTING WHAT’S MEANT FOR YOU.
 
I’ve been wrestling with this concept for years. I would posit that it might be the keynote of the Spiritual Path. I can confirm that it’s been the biggest pain in my spiritual ass.
I have always found this unsettling, but now I’m finding that it’s bringing me relief.
 
If I say to you, Darling, just want what’s *meant* for you….
 
How does that land? Sweaty palms and paranoia, or deep exhale?
Manifestation motivators and religions have been trying to sell us permission slips to reach our own destinies, but what if the real secret is to simply want what’s meant for you?
 
I made you a LIST! 😂 (I make fun of listicals because they are the worst AND the best of Instagram self-help, but I do love them.)

 

HOW TO GET READY FOR WHAT’S MEANT FOR YOU
 

1. FORGIVE. Resentment and anger are like lead weights in your energy field—major blockers to abundance and all the good stuff that you likely want to bring into your life. 

2. Focus on being “fuller” and not necessarily “bigger.” A fuller LIFE. More full of love, generosity, joy. This is embodiment, not performance. Embodiment is magnetic to what’s meant for you. Performance n’ fakery is a repellent to what’s meant for you. 

3. Who cares what #3 is. I have no #3 today. More “how to’s” don’t matter. Because…

The universe is a resplendent symphony of intentionality.
And if it is meant for you, it will find you.

Our job is to keep our energy field clean and to tuck in with our Higher Self on the daily. Spiritual practice, devotion, inner house keeping. Keep making space for what’s meant for you to enter your consciousness and your life. 

This requires radical trust, of course.
 
And radical trust is the absolute biggest spiritual PITA (that’s a Canadian acronym for “pain in the ass”.) I will talk about it soon. So much to look forward to.
To keep you subscribing here, old school style, I’m enticing you with music. Don’t just go read my listicle stuff on Instagram. The depth is deeper here. On that note…

Enticing you with music.

A playlist for you:

THE BALANCED FEMININE

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HEY!
 
THE SUPER BLESSER EXPERIENCE is ready for you!
 
A set of worksheet-exercises and techy videos from me to help you obliterate some outgrown identities you may still be identifying with and… want what’s meant for you. CHECK IT OUT HERE AND MAKE THIS YOUR SUPER BLESSER SUMMER
 
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