ISSUE 79 | DECEMBER 19, 2025
Those are not your people
My loves,
I don’t like talking about people like they’re investments. But you get the idea.
This is about loving yourself so deeply that you have the courage to see things as is, and becoming a more loving being—for yourself and for everybody else—by being able to see things with love.
And that often means discerning that some people just aren’t your people.
That it’s actually the evolved thing to do. The self-compassionate, heal-yourself thing—to hang where there is resonance.
This isn’t about surrounding yourself with yes-people. And it’s not about cutting people off in some righteous way.
It’s about discernment. Forgiveness, compassion, healing, and boundaries. And how to do all of that with love.
One of the nourishing thoughts I come back to again and again is this:
I love myself so deeply, I have the courage to see things as is.
When you can see clearly, you stop forcing belonging, and you start hanging out where there is resonance.
That’s when your relationships get healthier. Self-love deepens. Wisdom gets louder.
So welcome to a conversation called: Those are not your people. Thank you for listening.
With Love,
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